tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2786159670642011701.post5448994111395631156..comments2023-10-15T08:48:04.932-07:00Comments on Discuss SVG: Reclaiming?SVG epiphanyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05232576137523847141noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2786159670642011701.post-80694240015436654742010-04-16T15:40:27.726-07:002010-04-16T15:40:27.726-07:00Ok Sadiss, I agree that maybe I didn't link aw...Ok Sadiss, I agree that maybe I didn't link awareness of sexuality to sexual abuse and violence properly in the blog. But they are more connected than you think. <br /><br />The silence with which many girls grow up with in relation to their genitals/sexuality is part of the reason why child molesters get away with their acts. If we were taught to treasure our genitals as as means of cherishing our sexuality (the healthy concept that you described), I believe that we would be more vocal when anyone violates it or attempts to. <br /><br />If molesters were aware of a greater possibility of being discovered/punished, they may reconsider ever touching a child/women in that manner. <br /><br />I have spoken to women who have been raped and they are ashamed...rather than angry at the perpetrator. <br /><br />That is why women hush their daughters who complain of abuse and wash the blood away without addressing the issue face to face and pursuing justice. <br /><br />We have not been given the voice to command respect for our sexuality and we seem unable to find it ourselves. <br /><br />I think that women who are in control of their sexualities are less likely to have unwanted pregnancies/contract STDs or AIDS simply because we will insist on using protection. I have listened to many women, some my own friends, say that they didn't use a condom because 'he' does not like them. Again, this is an example of allowing the societally-accepted male sexuality take dominance over our controlled feminine wiles.SVG epiphanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05232576137523847141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2786159670642011701.post-10851474909549111002010-04-16T01:57:55.915-07:002010-04-16T01:57:55.915-07:00Epiphany,I love the tone and idea of this blog.
H...Epiphany,I love the tone and idea of this blog.<br /><br />However, I think you conflate some issues that may have taken away from the essential point that you are making.<br /><br />For instance the issue of sexual violence towards women and girls ought not to have been used in the context of this blog. You stated and I quote "Imagine, if girls were taught about their genitals from young, the knowledge and awareness increasing as the years pass...child molesters would think twice before reaching out to fondle"... Are you implying that had some women been more in control of their sexuality that it would have prevented sexual violence? <br /><br />And how does sexual equality within society reduce the incidents of Rape, Aids, child abuse etc?...To me its not a matter of equality but a matter of respect and lack of education. I believe you are confusing "sex" with sexuality in this regard. There is a difference in my opinion. Sexuality is not just about having sex, it is about completely healthy and positive attitude towards your body and towards yourselves. For women a better understanding towards their sexuality leads to a more respectful outlook towards sexual relationship which leads to more pleasurable and safe sexual experiences. And for fear of sounding like Fred Flinstone, this also applies to men.<br /><br />In todays Society, there will never be equality between man and woman in the area of sexuality. The quicker you accept that fact; the closer you will get in reclaiming your "cunt". As its not society role to aid you in this venture; rather this is a personal journey that one has to undertake.<br /><br />Anyway, I do like the way you think;not many Vincy women think along these lines...well at least those that I knew and know. The younger generation may be less rigid than their older counterparts; but as you alluded to in your blog, they lack the necessary awareness and a "mature grasp of (their) sexuality." <br /><br />Let me say as a guy, I love the woman who has reclaim her cunt; as for when she allows you to partake of it,she does so emphatically and unabashedly.<br /><br />Whisper in my ears...Saadissnoreply@blogger.com